Knackered Meets Toxic People with Benzos

   Hey there, Knackered here.  Contemporary science has confirmed the fact that everything is energy.  In fact, we ourselves are simply condensed energy vibrating at a slow speed.  True, we have evolved to the point where we have a brain, nervous system and the stuff that makes a human being, but that doesn’t change the fact that we don’t really have a real boundary that separates us from everything else.

   It’s said that our ‘energy vibration’ extends the essence of us into the space of others in such a way that that we can be influenced by the frequency they’re broadcasting.  And therein lies a problem when socialization is involved.

   We hate to admit it, but most of us hope that we are not toxic to the space and influence of others.  And, likewise, we hope their ‘essence’ doesn’t pollute our lives and happiness. Say it just ain’t so…

   Toxic people are individuals who exhibit negative behaviors that can harm others:  emotionally, mentally, and physically.  They often attempt to manipulate, deceive, or display jealousy.

   Most of us are already at our weakest, both physically and emotionally and would do well to avoid these types of individuals.  The truth is that it’s nearly impossible to do so.  Even if we’ve seen friends abandon us and family give us plenty of distance, people who wreck our heads are everywhere.

   There was that guy last week who stole my disability parking space and didn’t even have a permit hanging from his mirror.  One lady, even made fun of my dog when she saw him lying on the sidewalk.  She laughed and told her friend that he ‘hadn’t missed a meal in a long time.’ They practically had a hairy canary over it.  If the poor pup wasn’t such a gentle soul, I would have told them he was on guard and they needed to start running.

   Alas, it’s a lost cause. People care more about what’s happening on their phones than they do what’s happening in their life space.  Ever try getting someone to make eye contact with you while they’re talking?  Multi tasking won’t allow it.

   For what it’s worth I should point out that if we have our crap detectors in place, we can usually spot these folks coming.  They fall into four basic categories:  The conversational narcissist who won’t let you get a word in.  The Strait Jacket is the control freak in charge of the world.  The emotional moocher brings everybody down.  And finally, the drama magnet who is everyones victim.  (scienceofpeople.com).

  Short of a personality transplant, nothing will stop the transference of negative energy vibrations between us.  But if we can keep in mind that we need to put out as good as we hope to get back, we’ll all find ourselves in a better place.