Missing friend/member??

[[Ni...]]

Wanted to put this on a popular board...I've been talking to a woman with the nickname 'snow4fun' we talked everyday sometimes more and she's been gone since the 10th. She was very very sick...I'm sure some of you were aware of her heartbreaking condition. I did a search and it says there is no such member...but I can see her profile when I go to my old messages from her. She was in rough shape and was worried about having to go to a home at such a young age. I just want to know if she is alright. Is there a way to block certain members from searching for you and seeing any recent posts? I'd rather she had blocked me (although I don't know why, but that doesn't matter) than something bad had happened to her. She is severly ill with substantial nerve and brain damage and was having trouble. I don't know if she would want me to tell you that but if I had her number I would call because it is not like her to not send me a message and then just disappear off the site. If I am blocked can someone who knows her at least tell me if she is ok?? Thank you so much.

[[be...]]

I used to read her posts a lot. But I did not know she was in such trouble. I hope she is OK. Maybe a Mod/another can help you out on Feedback or Off Topic. But I do know of several former BBs who were a literal mess and did not feel they got the support here that they wanted so they canceled out. I'm sure if she did it she would have told your first, since you seemed to be friends. I know mine did before they left. I now find them on Facebook, which I try and ignore most of the time. There are several private Facebook benzo groups. But now I just realized she cancelled Facebook. If you belong, try and look at the Faith-based Support Group.

 

Betsy